How Do You Get Rid of Negative Thoughts…?

How do you get rid of negative thoughts towards yourself, your relationships or your past? Some may say renew your mind with new ideas, new thoughts and/or surround yourself with positive people. I do agree with all of that and I even tell my clients to do the same things. But sometimes when you have no books, tapes, webinars and/or no one around. I have found that if we are willing to listen, God has a way of canceling the lies we tell ourselves and the lies we decided to accept spoken by others over our lives. He cancels the lies with His truth, which is liberating, kind, loving, and outright powerful. And that is what a loving parent does isn’t it?

For instance, I had very low self-esteem when I was in high school (funny thing, people who know me now never believe this). I remember one-night driving, feeling bad about myself and crying out to God, telling Him that I was ugly, and no one would want me. I remember His response so clearly, “You are calling me a liar.” My response to Him, of course, was, “No way, God. I would never call you a liar.” He then responded, “Didn’t I say that everything I have made was beautiful, good and that you are fearfully and wonderfully made? So, when you call yourself ugly, you are calling me a liar.” That response hit me like a brick! But it was the truth.

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That Horrifying Four Letter Word

That Horrifying Four Letter Word…

We all have come face to face with this horrifying four-letter word, F-E-A-R. It doesn’t matter if you are a billionaire, poor, Einstein, or an average learner, fear does not discriminate!  Fear can block you from reaching your full potential and steal your destiny.

Many, including myself; have passed up various opportunities because of FEAR. Fear of failure, the unknown, or fear of what people might say or think.  Sometimes fear even sneaks up on us, and we don’t realize that we are walking in fear until we stop to analyze the situation.  Fear lies to us…It tells us that we are not qualified; we can’t start that business or that ministry; we can’t get that degree; we can’t win that championship; we can’t start over or get that dream job! ENOUGH is ENOUGH!!  Tell fear, to step back and allow God’s promises to lead you.

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Can A Coach Really Help Me?

In sports, all teams from little league to professional sports, all require a coach. Why? Because coaches foster accountability, heightens and accelerates results. A coach motivates, directs/instructs, counsel, and encourages the team and with persistence and dedication, the team is successful. So if a coach can do that in sports, why not in life. Yes, sure, we all have a certain level of passion, drive, determination, and ambition within us. But don’t we all need accountability and/or to accelerate results in our lives or in our careers. We all could benefit from having someone in our corner to cheer us on and push us to our optimum potential.

10 Reasons Why Coaching Can Be Helpful To You…

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